I bought this to try something new, spice up the old sex life. i wasn't sure about the length, i thought it might be a bit small, but it packs a real big punch. My wife and i tried it on me the other night, i rode it hard as she gave me a hand job. OMG i came so hard, one of the best orgasms I've had in a while. Now its all i think about, i want this thing up my ass everyday. It's great for solo play and with your partner. It's pretty thin so it doesn't take much to get it in place, but you feel the ridges as it moves in and out, make sure you lube it up real good. If you are looking for something bigger than this try the Crystal Jellies 6 Inch Ballsy Cock and that one takes some work and rubs the P spot a lot more. But start with this guy and work your way up to that. Now i'm off to use it again