Yo this thing is magic. I used to have vaginismus, meaning I couldn t fit anything inside me, like not even tampons. After using the Dr. b dialator set from pinkcherry, and then this, it s perfect. Not too hard or rigid, perfect amount of give to it. It s harness compatible which is great too. I got the pink colour and it looks absolutely dope af. When im not using it, i stick it on my bathroom mirror and use it as a towel hanger. 10/10.